Giving means sincerely parting with what you cannot part with.
there is a saying,
"Donating money is like cutting off your flesh."
Most people cannot give rise to a generous heart.
If one can sincerely practice charity
and donate what is hard to give up,
that is true giving.
If one gives with reservation,
that is not true giving,
Although such giving is not without merit,
the merit is not so great.